Using AI is fine. Using it to replace your thinking isn't.
There's a version of AI adoption that looks like efficiency and is actually absence. You've stopped being the person doing the work. You've become the person approving outputs. The strange part is how good it feels while it's happening. The work gets faster, the results look competent, and nobody notices, including you, until the day you need the skill the tool was quietly doing on your behalf.
I came here as an adult, with college debt, a meager job offer, and more than a little uncertainty. By the time I was learning to code in earnest and building a career, I was watching former industrial spaces turn into trails, riverfront paths, labs, and small tech offices. People pushing strollers where shift whistles used to run the clock is not my childhood memory. It is what I learned to notice after I moved here.