Ris Adams

Using the CCAR method to get your resume noticed​

In today's competitive job market, a generic resume simply won't cut it anymore. Recruiters spend an average of just 7.4 seconds scanning each resume[^1], so you need a strategic approach to make your application stand out in a crowded field of qualified candidates. The CCAR model (Context, Challenges, Actions, Results) is a powerful technique that can transform your resume from forgettable to compelling, helping you showcase your accomplishments in a way that resonates with employers.

You're trying to spin up your development server, and boom: "Port 3000 is already in use." Sound familiar? This scenario plays out daily in development environments worldwide. Sometimes it's obvious (your React app is still running from yesterday), but often it's a mystery process lurking in the background.

Instead of rebooting your machine or randomly killing processes, let's solve this systematically using the right tools for the job.

Burnout isn't just feeling tired after a long week of debugging production issues. It's the difference between a temporary energy dip and a systematic breakdown of your professional mojo. After years of managing development teams and navigating my own career challenges, I've learned that burnout has distinct patterns—and more importantly, specific solutions.

Research from Spanish universities has identified three distinct burnout subtypes, each requiring different recovery strategies. Understanding which type you're experiencing can mean the difference between a quick course correction and months of professional misery.

Every team has them: the chronic complainer who shoots down every idea, the perfectionist who blocks progress over minor details, or the passive-aggressive colleague who agrees in meetings but undermines decisions later. After years of managing development teams and navigating complex team dynamics as a Scrum Master, I've learned that difficult coworkers aren't just personality quirks to tolerate—they're system problems that require systematic solutions.

The key isn't changing people (spoiler: you can't), but understanding the underlying patterns and building resilient approaches that protect your productivity and mental health while fostering better team outcomes.

Developers are natural self-learners. We've mastered complex frameworks from documentation, debugged obscure issues with Stack Overflow, and built entire applications from tutorials. So when it comes to career development and personal growth, the question naturally arises: can we just coach ourselves?

After years of both self-directed learning and working with professional coaches and mentors, I've learned that the answer isn't simply yes or no. It's about understanding when each approach works best and how to maximize the effectiveness of both.

Let's break down the trade-offs like we would any technical decision: what are the constraints, what are we optimizing for, and what's the most effective path to our desired outcome?

Performance reviews don't have to be the annual corporate theater where you sit across from your manager wondering if you're about to get promoted or managed out. After conducting hundreds of performance reviews as a Scrum Master and receiving my share as a developer, I've learned that great performance reviews are less about luck and more about systematic preparation.

The secret? Turn your performance review from a judgment session into a strategic career conversation. Here's how to do it right.

Why public speaking is your secret weapon in tech​

Here's the thing nobody tells you about public speaking: it's not about being naturally charismatic or having perfect delivery. It's about building the one skill that will accelerate your career faster than any certification or framework mastery.

I've watched brilliant developers get passed over for promotions because they couldn't articulate their ideas in meetings. Meanwhile, I've seen average coders become tech leads because they could explain complex concepts clearly to stakeholders. The difference? They invested in speaking skills.

The reality of career pivots after 40​

Let's skip the motivational fluff. You're considering a career change after 40, which means you're either deeply unsatisfied with your current path or circumstances have forced your hand. Either way, you're here because you need a practical roadmap, not platitudes about "following your dreams."

Here's what I've learned from watching colleagues successfully navigate mid-career transitions (and some spectacular failures along the way): it's absolutely doable, but the rules are different than they were in your twenties.

Why intentional parenting beats default mode every time​

Here's the uncomfortable truth about modern parenting: it's incredibly easy to operate on autopilot. Between work demands, household management, and the constant digital noise, we default to the path of least resistance. Netflix becomes the babysitter. Devices fill the silence. Family time becomes whatever happens to occur rather than what we intentionally create.

I've been there. After a long day of sprint planning and stakeholder meetings, the last thing you want to do is orchestrate family activities. But here's what I've learned: the families that thrive are the ones that choose active engagement over passive coexistence.

Why gratitude isn't just feel-good fluff​

Here's what I've learned about gratitude: it's not about forcing positivity or pretending everything is fine when it's not. It's about training your brain to notice what's working alongside what's broken. And in a world where our feeds are engineered to highlight everything that's wrong, that's become a survival skill.

As parents, we're competing against algorithms designed to capture attention through outrage and anxiety. Our kids are growing up in an environment where the default mode is dissatisfaction. Building a family culture of gratitude isn't about toxic positivity—it's about giving our kids tools to maintain perspective when the world feels overwhelming.

Why emotional intelligence beats raw IQ every time​

Here's something I wish I'd understood earlier in my career: the smartest person in the room isn't always the most successful. I've watched brilliant developers struggle with team dynamics while colleagues with solid (but not exceptional) technical skills became tech leads and managers. The difference? Emotional intelligence.

The same pattern plays out for our kids. Academic achievement matters, but the ability to understand emotions, navigate relationships, and communicate effectively determines success in ways that test scores never will. And unlike IQ, emotional intelligence can be taught, practiced, and improved throughout life.

The parenting framework that actually works​

Let's get something straight: there's no perfect way to parent. Anyone promising you a foolproof system is selling something. Parenting is more like managing a complex project with constantly changing requirements, shifting deadlines, and stakeholders who sometimes communicate their needs by having meltdowns in grocery stores.

But here's what I've learned after years of observing families (including my own struggles): while there's no perfect approach, there are principles that consistently create stronger, more resilient families. Think of these as your parenting architecture—the foundational patterns that help you make better decisions when everything feels chaotic.

The psychology of expectations in parenting​

Here's something that changed how I think about parenting: your expectations for your kids aren't just hopes or predictions—they're actively shaping your child's reality. The way you see your child becomes the way they see themselves, which becomes the way they show up in the world.

This isn't motivational poster wisdom. It's backed by decades of research in psychology and education. The Pygmalion effect, originally studied in classrooms, shows that when adults expect certain performance from children, those expectations become self-fulfilling prophecies. The mechanism is subtle but powerful: our beliefs influence our behavior, which influences their beliefs about themselves.

Why your child needs to fail (and why that's terrifying for you)​

Here's the parenting paradox that keeps me up at night: the very experiences that will make our kids resilient and capable are the ones we're biologically programmed to prevent. Every instinct tells us to smooth the path, prevent the pain, and solve the problems. But here's what I've learned from watching both successful and struggling adults: the ones who thrive aren't the ones who never faced difficulty—they're the ones who learned to navigate it.

The uncomfortable truth is that resilience isn't built through success. It's built through the process of failing, recovering, adapting, and trying again. And as parents, our job isn't to prevent this process—it's to create the conditions where it can happen safely.

Think of parenting like managing a production system. You need clear boundaries, consistent enforcement, and meaningful feedback loops. When your deployment fails, you don't just ignore it – you investigate, implement fixes, and prevent future issues. The same principle applies to raising kids who'll thrive in the real world.

This isn't about becoming a tyrant with arbitrary rules. It's about creating a predictable environment where actions have logical consequences, success gets recognized, and everyone understands the system architecture.

Think of family values like your system's core configuration. Without clear config files, your applications run inconsistently, throw random errors, and eventually crash. The same thing happens to families without established values – decisions become arbitrary, conflicts multiply, and everyone operates from different assumptions about how things should work.

You wouldn't deploy software without defining your architecture principles. Don't raise kids without defining your family principles either.