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Ris Adams
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De-stress your mess

Interviewing is stressful enough without wrestling with tech issues or wondering if you're coming across clearly on camera. The good news? Most interview stress comes from things you can control with a bit of preparation and the right mindset.

Whether you're interviewing for a fully remote role or a hybrid position, these strategies will help you show up confident and prepared. Let's streamline your approach so you can focus on what matters: showing them why you're the right fit.

Burnout isn't a character flaw or a sign you're not cut out for this work. It's what happens when the demands on your energy consistently outpace your ability to recover. If you're reading this feeling exhausted, cynical, or like you're running on empty, you're not alone.

Let's talk about what burnout actually looks like, how to prevent it, and — if you're already there — how to find your way back to sustainable productivity and genuine enjoyment of your work.

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Burnout isn't just "feeling tired at work." It's a complex experience that can hit you from multiple angles, often simultaneously. Understanding which type of burnout you're experiencing helps you choose the right recovery approach instead of trying generic solutions that might not fit your situation.

Let's break down the eight dimensions of burnout, what they look like in practice, and how to address each one specifically.

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Keeping your development environment current shouldn't require daily manual intervention. If you're running WSL for your development work, you want those packages fresh without the cognitive overhead of remembering to update them.

Let's automate WSL package updates so your Ubuntu (or other distro) stays current while you focus on actual work. This approach works whether you want updates at startup, on a schedule, or both.

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When I transitioned to full-time remote work ten months ago, I thought I'd simply swap my office chair for a home desk. What I discovered instead was a complete reimagining of how productivity actually works.

First came the necessity - helping my medically fragile son required flexibility that traditional office life couldn't provide. Then Covid-19 hit, and suddenly everyone was navigating this new landscape. Through trial, error, and plenty of late-night reflection, I've distilled eight core strategies that transformed not just my output, but my entire relationship with work.

Three months into my first senior developer role, I found myself staring at my screen at 2 AM, debugging the same function for the fourth consecutive hour. The code wasn't particularly complex, but my brain felt like it was running through molasses. When my alarm went off six hours later, the thought of opening my laptop made my stomach clench.

That's when I realized I wasn't just tired - I was burning out.

Developer burnout isn't just about working too many hours or dealing with difficult stakeholders. It's a systematic erosion of the passion, creativity, and problem-solving joy that drew us to coding in the first place. If you're reading this at 1 AM wondering if your love for development is permanently broken, you're not alone - and more importantly, it's fixable.

You've just finished that React tutorial you've been putting off for weeks. The instructor's voice still echoes in your head as you stare at the completed todo app on your screen. You feel accomplished, maybe even a little proud. But then reality hits: without the step-by-step guidance, you're not entirely sure you could build this again from scratch.

Sound familiar?

Here's the uncomfortable truth about tutorials - they're fantastic for introducing concepts, but terrible for building real competence. The knowledge feels solid when you're following along, but it's actually more fragile than you realize. The real learning happens in what you do next.

Quick Career Assessment

This is a quiz about career success. It is a short quiz that will help you understand where you are at in your career and some things that you can do to define your definition of success. If you would like to share your results with me: you can take the online version at SurveyMonkey.

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Ten years ago, I thought career success meant climbing the corporate ladder as fast as possible. More responsibility, bigger title, higher salary - rinse and repeat until retirement. Then life threw me a curveball that forced me to reconsider everything I thought I knew about professional fulfillment.

When my son was born with medical complexities that required constant attention, traditional career metrics suddenly felt hollow. Working 60-hour weeks for a promotion meant missing critical appointments. That corner office didn't matter if I couldn't be present for the people who needed me most.

That's when I learned the difference between career achievement and career success. Achievement is what others see on your LinkedIn profile. Success is how you feel when your head hits the pillow each night.

Sometimes the best way forward is to go back to your roots. After 24 years of web hosting adventures - from the wild west days of Geocities to premium shared hosting - I'm taking a step that feels both nostalgic and revolutionary: moving to GitHub Pages.

This isn't just a hosting migration. It's a return to the hands-on, build-it-yourself ethos that got me excited about the web in the first place. When I first started building websites in 1996, every line of HTML was intentional, every image was optimized by necessity, and understanding how things worked wasn't optional - it was survival.

Fast-forward to 2020, and I find myself craving that same level of control and understanding. GitHub Pages offers something rare in today's web landscape: simplicity without sacrifice, power without complexity.

If I could sit down with my 25-year-old self over coffee, I'd probably start with "relax, you're going to be okay." Then I'd spend the next three hours frantically trying to download two decades of hard-earned wisdom before the timeline paradox kicked in.

The truth is, past me wouldn't have listened to most of this advice anyway. Some lessons can only be learned through experience, bruised knees, and the occasional spectacular failure. But maybe - just maybe - a few of these insights would have saved me some unnecessary detours and sleepless nights.

This isn't a list of regrets. I'm genuinely grateful for the path I took, wrong turns and all. These are observations from the other side of decisions, relationships, and career moves that seemed monumentally important at the time but turned out to be just Tuesday in the grand scheme of things.

Three years into my first corporate job, I found myself in a bathroom stall at 2 PM, fighting back tears after yet another meeting where my ideas were dismissed without consideration. I'd spent months trying to adapt to the company culture, modifying my communication style, tempering my enthusiasm, and generally trying to become someone I thought they wanted me to be.

The irony wasn't lost on me: in trying so hard to fit in, I'd made myself completely ineffective. My authentic self - the one who asked challenging questions, pushed for better solutions, and occasionally got excited about elegant code - had been systematically edited out of existence.

That's when I learned one of the most important lessons of my career: you have the right to be yourself, especially in professional settings where the pressure to conform can be overwhelming.

Find your routine

In a typical office, you are naturally forced into a routine. I need to wake up early, shower, and drive to the office in order to ensure that I am at my desk from "9-5".

Without a forced schedule a typical day can become much less regimented, and you can find yourself working odd–longer hours to overcompensate. That little voice in your head starts whispering, "Since you're saving commute time, shouldn't you be working more hours?" Ignore that voice. It's lying to you.

Surviving Remote Work

I have been a developer for almost 20 years. During that time I've wandered through countless office environments—from sterile corporate skyscrapers to chaotic startup lofts. I've navigated cubicle labyrinths that would make Daedalus proud and fought for "hot-desks" like they were the last lifeboat on a sinking ship. But starting in December 2019, I began a new chapter—100% remote work. Not by choice, but by necessity. And sometimes, the most profound changes in our lives come from circumstances we never anticipated.